After recognizing my lover Xiaohuai, I totally understand that why my peer born in He'nan did not wanna speak Henanese when we had a meal a restaurant in Peking University five years ago. Her parent firmly refused me when they heard that I am a Henanese and 8 years older than Xiaohuai.In their point of view, all people coming from He'nan are farmers and do not have good manner, to Beijingers, they are troublemakers. What a silly decision. Are all Beijingers good persons? I underestimate their xenophobia. So sad is  my lover, actually, Xiaohuai's family originated from Shandong Province 50 year ago, her stubborn father can speak very fluent Shangdongese,but he almost think that persons coming from other province are all bad eggs.Xiaohuai's father is so powerful and force my lover to apart from me. If she refuses to do so, a Cold War will begin which will make my Xiaohuai upset daily, so we choose to "cheat"  them, which we are reluctant to do so. for us, the best way is to go aboard together, we are striving for our goal, for me, another fighting for GMAT and Toefl, for Xiaohuai is the most difficult test Lsat.God bless us!I cannot live without Xiaohuai!